**Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s Marriage Ends After 19 Years: Warning Signs Emerged Months Before Split**
*Published October 3, 2025, 7:01 p.m. ET*
Nicole Kidman’s marriage to Keith Urban has officially ended after 19 years together, RadarOnline.com can reveal. Sources close to the couple say warning signs were visible months before their split became public.
The Oscar-winning actress, 58, and the country music star, 57, are currently living apart. Urban has moved into his own residence in Nashville while continuing his High and Alive world tour. Kidman remains in Tennessee with their daughters, Sunday Rose, 17, and Faith Margaret, 14.
### Warning Signs Missed
Insiders suggest Kidman was “blindsided” by Urban’s decision to separate, though observers point to several earlier red flags. These included cool public appearances, Kidman’s dramatic weight loss, and a surprising move to Portugal.
A source close to the family shared, “Nicole didn’t want to see the truth, but the signs were there. Her weight loss, the solo appearances, the distance from Keith — all of it pointed to a marriage and people in trouble. For friends around her, it should have set alarm bells ringing.”
### Distant Public Appearances
Kidman and Urban were last photographed together in June at the FIFA Club World Cup in Nashville. Known for their affectionate public displays, the couple appeared distant while seated in the stands.
Their final social media interaction came weeks later when Kidman posted a black-and-white anniversary tribute. Urban replied only with a heart emoji and did not post anything himself.
One source noted, “Nicole poured her feelings into that post, but Keith’s minimal reply stood out. It was a clear signal of how things really were between them.”
### Portugal Move Sparks Questions
In July, Kidman further fueled speculation by attending Wimbledon without Urban. Instead, she was seen sitting with Vogue editor Anna Wintour.
That same month, she applied for Portuguese residency without her husband. While Urban’s team later explained that his touring schedule prevented him from attending the mandatory appointment, insiders perceived the move differently.
A source remarked, “Nicole was beginning to carve out her own path. To outsiders, the Portugal residency looked less like logistics and more like a statement of independence.”
### Strain Takes Its Toll
Fans also noticed Kidman’s physical transformation. At the Golden Globes in January, she appeared noticeably thinner in a fitted Balenciaga gown, sparking widespread concern.
A nutrition expert commented that Kidman appeared well below the average weight for her height. A source familiar with her schedule added, “Nicole has been pushing herself relentlessly. With non-stop filming, constant travel, and family demands, the strain was beginning to show.”
The couple’s diverging careers only deepened the cracks. While Urban toured North America, Kidman spent much of the summer in London filming *Practical Magic 2*, renting a Hampstead mansion for more than $87,000 a month.
Another insider revealed, “They did try to stay in touch every day, but after Nicole lost her mother, the long stretches apart became more obvious. It felt like they were drifting into separate lives.”
### Kidman Reflects on Marriage
Kidman herself admitted last year that marriage rarely lives up to the perfect image presented to the public. While promoting her Netflix drama *The Perfect Couple*, she said, “There’s no perfect anything — anything that’s presented as perfect… forget it.”
When asked whether she believed her marriage was viewed as perfect, she replied, “I don’t see any of that. No, I don’t see that.”
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